BUT, it turned out that the whole time we were practically dating she was casually talking to another guy. She told me about this other guy and how she didn't like him. He ended up asking her out and they started dating. Every day she would call me complaining about him and how she didn't like him and only agreed to date him because she felt bad saying no.
So I finally told her how I felt and she told me that she felt the same way, but she would have to wait for the right time to break up with him. So we continued to talk and then one day she told me that she liked him more than she liked me now, but still wanted to be friends , because we were bestfriends, and couldn't stand the thought of losing me from her life.
Then a couple of weeks ago she texted me and told me that she couldn't be this close to another guy and hiw we couldn't be friends anymore because her boyfriend thought that she was cheating in him with me.
I told her "fine. I guess you value your relationship of a month with some guy that you don't even know over our friendship." Then she said goodbye and she hasn't spoken to me since.
What do I do. I still have feelings for this girl. Should I try and talk to her? I am so lost and heartbroken? Please help.
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should just give her space. You know the saying that says, "if you set something free anf they love you they'll come back" because if you keep trying to talk to her you'll only make it worse for yourself.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I agree with goldgirl98. If she really cares, she'll come back. Until then don't let it distract you, remember that you have a life too. Give yourself some time to let these feelings for her to pass over. Then start talking to other girls; that doesn't mean give up on her, just give her time.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE