I told my boyfriend on Wed. That I think we should take a break. I did this because he needs to figure out what he wants. He asked me why I felt this way and told him that. He said that he was thinking the same thing. I know I want him in my life. It is now Sat. And I miss him so much. Would it be okay to call him or text him to see how he is doing and see if he wants to see each other or talk.
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I think so. You said you thought that you wanted to take a break, but you didn't mention how long of a break you wanted to take, so maybe you have taken as much of a break as you needed at this time. I think it would be good for you to talk to him now and find out for sure what is going on with him. If he's not ready to jump back into the relationship, he will probably tell you that he needs more time. Don't feel rejected by this - just remember that if he truly loves you, it won't matter how long he takes to come back. Some people need more space than others. It also depends on how much time the two of you have spent together already. All relationships need a healthy amount of space to be able to remain healthy.0