Is this an okay reason to dump someone? I liked him so much. I can't say I loved him but he was great! We dated for four months until he said that he couldn't keep dating me because of this. I wasn't really heart broken because we were mostly just friends but I'm feeling like crap because I've always been insecure about myself. And I always tried putting him first as well. What do I do to change myself or get him back?
Most Helpful Guy
Depends. Sometimes a person's insecurity is toxic or too much to deal with. So, yes it can be a legitimate reason to break up. However, if he broke up with you because some other reason and disguised it as you being 'too insecure' then he's asshole. Either way, move on.1
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes people can't handle other peoples insecurities, it depends if it was a main issue that was always brought up in your relationship. I use to date this guy who was insecure but at the same time always just wanted me to say positive things to him and reassure him overtime it got too much, and I didn't feel like I could be with them because he thought I could do better, didn't think he deserved me etc. So it can be tiresome yes. How you could change yourself? It's a work in progress already because you want to, you also have to fake it till it's real, act confident and you will be. Know yourself worth and that you deserve the world.2