I am a heterosexual "male" who is gender fluid. I like a lot of things men and women do and I feel the way men and women do. I consider myself to be caught somewhere in between. I wear girl clothes and guy clothes. I mostly wear girl clothes under my guy clothes. I enjoy anything from super hero to princess movies. I am rough, but have a sensitive and emotional side too. I'm not above getting my boys hair waxed or getting my nails done. I enjoy weight lifting and martial arts. This is who I am. Is this okay? Will I ever find a woman who is okay with this.
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I wouldn't date you. I like real men. Nothing wrong with liking the movies you like, though.
That said, you should be a man. Women like men, not wishy washy guys. If you don't want to be a man anymore, go to the doctor and get surgery and hormones to be a woman.
There is too much of this "identity indecision" crap going on. I am from the South and I know I sound mean, but men are men, and women are women.
A woman of quality is not going to want a guy that is confused who he is. If you want one of the weirdos I have met here in California that does not think for themselves, cannot call a pot black when it is black, and are afraid to speak how they feel (political correctness is dumb), then why would any man want her? Once you get in a relationship, it is hard to trust someone who doesn't know themselves, or worse, lies to themself to make their self feel "good".
I admit I have a lot of faults, am not as pretty as I want to be, but I am honest with who I am and I hate a lot of it, but it is the truth and life. The man I am with is kewl with who I am and loves that I say what I mean, not what I think he wants to hear.
Hope this helps.
(Back home in GA, this kind of question would get you beat up by any guy who read it. Even a lot of the girls there would get a 2x4 to help you man up.. one reason I moved to California... LOL)0