Why are you single?

I'm single because I can longer trust guys, they always end up hurting me so fuck it I'm gonna be forever alone with my future adopted child!

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  • Because I kept opening my heart to the wrong people which caused me to develop serious trust issues. I'm not in the business of getting my heart broken over and over, so I've decided to go back to not letting anyone in.

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  • U ended up getting hurt cuz ur easy AF! What hurts the most is when u feel used after getting dump 👌🏼 learn from ur mistake and stop being so weak minded and let those hungry wolves take advantage of u. That way u will have no one to blame 👋🏻 but the truth is.. the problem is u ☝🏼️

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    • U know what ur right, I should've stayed in my old relationship even tho sometimes I would get bitch slapped and even punched in the face, yea I should've totally stayed... Fuck no!

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    • There was no question at all. She's just ranting. No point in answering

    • @kidInk4 right. No point in answering but given weak minded people advice on how to survive in the wilderness 👌🏼

  • A lot of times people pin it on the gender they are interested. Some men think women are shitheads because they got hurt. Some women think men are shitheads because they got hurt.

    It seems like the bisexuals are the only ones who understand that being a shithead knows no gender.

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  • "I'm single because I can longer trust guys, they always end up hurting me so fuck it I'm gonna be forever alone with my future adopted child!"

    Translation: I was pumped and dumped by hot guys who all other girls want as well. I see only top 5% of hot and attractive guys as guys in first place, while other majority is just a genetic scum which is invisible to my eyes and rather kill myself on the place, than to have a sex with one of those creepy creatures. Hot guy or death.

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  • My hometown's a giant trailer park where everyone (including 99.98% of the girls) binge drinks alcohol, smokes cigarettes and/or smokes weed, let alone some who do harder drugs. It literally said in our newspaper that we're the meth capital of our state because it's the cheapest here. I'll hopefully get a girlfriend soon after leaving this hellhole.

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  • The privilege of being hurt in a relationship, is denied to many men especially. Some guys would love to be hurt after a breakup just to know that somewhere, somehow, they got a girlfriend to begin with.

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  • Slight trust issues with women now due to my past couple of ex gfs, that and no one really wants to date the guy that is always working, or moving around a lot. My job makes it incredibly hard to have much of a personal life

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  • :( this makes me sad...
    Sorry you can't trust us men

    But! i have the same issue can't trust girls! lol... not really funny but laughter is the best medicine

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  • Well babaddiie420 maybe you should stop chasing smooth talkers, players and alpha males and look for guys with good characters who aren't mister cool.

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    • "No, no! I want to date douchebags!"

    • @Surfofthenomad Here a story. My cousin has a girlfriend who makes her own money, sweet bubbly, cooks, love children and animals and regularly calls him during the day and once at night to wish him good night. Basically you could say GF/Wife material. My cousin however has cheated on his girlfriend 4X time for the year, active on tinder and hookup sites, and still regularly flirt with girls and get their numbers. Women are so foolish that they chase after smooth talkers, and/or guys who are rich/super attractive, then they get surprised and pissed off when things go bad in the end and they were nothing but a sex toy for these men. To further this they then get jaded and paint all men with a broad brush and lose mistrust for guys, when i'm pretty sure she has a handful of guys she is ignoring in her life who genuinly want a relationship with them/and want to love them.

  • I'm single because I'm shy. I blush easy. And I'm just average looking. I'm normal and speak completely fine once I talk to someone for a bit but I need to warm up to the person first.

    In response to your description, I'd like to say this: Not all guys are evil. Try being more cautious in who you pick is my suggestion and make sure they are attracted to you for the right reasons. While not all guys are jerks, there are some that act like really nice guys at first so they can use you or they'll act nice and hide their abusive side.

    Well, in any case, if worse comes to worse, you can be a crotchety old mountain hermit like I'm surely going to be in the future xD

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  • I'm single cause the right one hasn't come along yet. Maybe someday she will or maybe I'll just be the lone wolf also I'm tired of getting hurt by girls around me

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  • Honey, I could write a 12 volume series of worldwide best-selling books on why I'm single.

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  • I'm shy, a tad overweight, average looking, and I'm shy. by the way, do you think that if guys are less shy and just ask a girl out he will have a better chance?

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  • Because my standards are stratospheric, my confidence is on life support, and my motivation is sloth-like.

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  • If I were single at this point in my life it would be by choice. I may not be too old for the dating scene but the fun of it is loooong gone.

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  • Busy schedule between work/school/gym
    And honestly... I just haven't found a girl that has held my attention.

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  • Says the girl with a borderline nude as her profile picture...

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  • Because I'm shy and submissive, and pretty much no girl seems to like that. All of the ones I've met are looking for dominant alpha males.

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  • You always pick the wrong guys, that's why you're single. And you also heard that before. I'm single because I don't talk to girls.

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  • No one cares and maybe you get hurt because you deserve it?
    But naaah... how can you be at fault i mean your perfect right?

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  • Because I'm done with looking for a good while and I want to focus on myself.

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What Girls Said 18

  • I ain't got time for a relationship nor am I ready for one. I still have unshakable feelings for my ex but I don't chase him so it doesn't get in the way of my goals or doesn't mean I'm holding onto shit. I'm taking one step at a time and living in the present. I need to focus on my goals.

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  • If you choose to distrust every male individual on the planet, you may as well become a hermit and never talk to anyone ever. It's not like it is their sex that makes then untrustworthy, it is their moral code. This is our cultural heritage, the greed and the selfishness. And the sexism.

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  • Because at this point in my life, I have more important things to do. Also, I've never met my crush personally yet. 🙈🙉🙊

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  • I'm asexual and not planning to have sex, so I find negotiating relationships is a bit tricky. Also working on the whole emotional unavailability thing...

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  • I'm single because guys either don't like me (because I'm chubby) or they really want a girlfriend and they want me to commit to them after TWO dates! My ex also gave me some trust issues also.

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  • Im a sarcastic smart ass weird ass bitch like fr I'm so fuckin weird and people just can't handle it tbh.

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  • Because I haven't been making myself available. Kind of on purpose.

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  • Because I had a really bad relationship and just haven't found the right guy

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  • i was single before my current boyfriend because i left my abusive ex :D

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  • I'm single because i haven't found my true love but i believe someday my Prince will come...

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  • Probably because I'm a piece of shit. :)

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  • too ugly for hot people too hot for ugly people

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  • Cause I love being single 😍😍😍

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    • I've had bad experiences. I'm simply not ready to start dating again. I'm busy with work and studies anyway :) When I feel sad or lonely, I call my bestie and she visits me

  • I'm single because I'm focusing on my education.

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  • I don't know, why am I?

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  • I am shopping around

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  • I'm single because I'm not mentally healthy and people can notice it after awhile.

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  • i dont want a relationship.

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