But the fact is I find him super handsome and I love every aspect of him and his personality.
After many frustrating months at not making him aware of my interest I confessed to him in a very bad way (via text) because I never had the courage to say it in his face nor could even pull the conversation in a way to do so (I'm a coward I know).
I got text reply saying he feels flattered but he is not in a dating place right now and he does not agree with dating co workers. He stills works with me and acts as nothing ever happened in a friendly and casual way but we never talked face to face about it.
This made me feel quite unattractive and unwanted but the funny part is: Everyone is happy I got rejected because they think I am way over his league, even before confessing everyone who works with us and know us both quite well said he would never reject me for that same reason, and that we would be a perfect match.
They all got shocked he said no, but say he refused me because he was afraid of dating someone above him in looks and out of fear of rejection said NO. I do not consider him under or above my league in looks but I think I am bad at judging this because I am a Latin woman and he is a English person (different cultures and almost opposite looks). I am very confused and I admit I feel a very big difference into the dating cultures of my country vs. the British.
Basically what I want to know is if it is possible to get rejected by someone because they may be afraid of you thinking you are too much for them, or think they do not deserve you? Sorry for the long text, but I did not know how to explain it properly. Cheers