I always feel less of a man, or almost shameful when a girl says or I realise a girl I like doesn't like me in that way and sees me more of a brother type. I can't help but feel like this. Any other guys like this? Should I feel like this?
i literally have no girls that say I'm attractive, I'm a really caring guy and I think that actually hinders me.
Most Helpful Girl
You shouldn't feel less of a man, just perhaps less of a lover. When a girl says you're like a brother it may bc you're really protective or really close like a really good friend. Basically she's saying you're family. That's not an offense at all, but seeing you may want to be in a relationship with her it may have been one, but everyone else would see it as a compliment. You can find another girl and still be friends with her?0
Most Helpful Guy
Its okay to be caring but dont be over the top with it. You said most girls dont say your atttactive, well most of the time they are not going to flat out and say it, your going to have to look for the hints. Dont feel bad if she sees you as a brotgerbecause thats her choice. You can't control that, so just leave her alone and start looking for other girls.0