Most Helpful Girl
I was with my ex for 9 years, i have the baby 99% of the time, im busy, i go to school he is a neglectful father who enjoys smoking pot daily and i do not like him, our relationship ended because he was using a variety of drugs regularly.
My point is, Even in my situation, 1 year later, the fact that he has a girlfriend some how hurts me, the wasted time, the lost feelings, the confused feelings, the lost love, its very emotional and when you are with someone for so long its like you lost a family member. It will still hurt her so if you respect her at all, or ever loved he just do not rub it in her face or be rude by comparing her to your wife, plus any flaws your new woman has, just like your wife may take years to develop.0
Most Helpful Guy
You're divorced. Let her be upset. It's none of her business what you do.0