I am embarassed that I don't have very much. I am 27 years old and work for local gov. My car is really old and the ac does not work and I have a small one bedroom apt. I am just wondering if a man will date a woman who makes a lot less than he does. I don't have a smart phone or cable and I try to save my money. Most of my money is in the bank and I have abou 10k. I am just wondering does this turn a man off. The guy that shows interest in me is an accountant and way older than me. He is pretty much established.
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Guys don't tend to care about that stuff as much as women. Most marriages that happen are between men that make more than the woman. Whereas rich women and poor men are less likely to get married. Your lack of wealth is a complete non issue for most guys.
From a guys perspective caring about how much the other person makes is shallow, since it is something we simply don't value in a woman. Much like how from a woman's perspective the stuff guys do care about is shallow, since they don't care about the stuff that we value. Men and women generally just aren't attracted to the same traits and never will be.5
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