So first of all I'm not a 100% sure if he's interested in me but it really seems like that and there's not really an other reason why he would text me. Also a lot of people think that he's interested.
1.) How can I get him to tell me?
2.) Do you mind if the girl does the first step?
3.) How should I ask him about his feelings?
Most Helpful Guy
Well see if he is giving any signs... if he likes you or not...
Then take him to a dinner or to his place or on a date and in the end.. bring up the question, if you want to take things further or not? You don't necessarily have to ask all the questions directly since he is shy... ask in a calm comfortable sweet way... you know.
Girls taking first step is totally fine... but it's just that there will be confusion in the power bit it will can be sorted out by bringing rules to the relationship and as time pass by.
Most Helpful Girl
Well I'm pretty shy and I've been in this situation.
We were texting and I was being a little flirty. When he was flirty back I said to him soooo when are you asking me out?
He responded with something like are you free Friday and we had dinner. Then afterwards he asked me on a second date and the rest was history
Sometimes it's good to surprise people a little1