Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months. The other day he let me use his phone and then he walked into the bathroom. Anyway while I had his phone which I needed to text someone since mine was dead. I saw on his messages that he texts this girl and and things seem pretty friendly. Then what my boyfriend says to her is bizzare. He said if I were single I would date you. I was lIke what? He said what? Should I be concerned that he is interested in dating this girl even when he is with me? Or is he just being friendly and making her feel good about herself? But the feeling that was in that text was strong. And just so you all know I am a different girl than the other girl on here in a similar situation as me.
Most Helpful Guy
Don't know depends how he is with her if the girl is a little self conscious and you know she is shy and not the most confident out of her friends then he was probably makeing her feel better but if she's a major hottie that is confident and gets all the boys then it would seem suspicious. I know girls that said they would date me or shag me to make me more confident even tho they already have a boyfriend but obviously they wouldn't because there just being nice and wouldn't cheat on their boyfriend0
Most Helpful Girl
I would look past the text that he said to the girl.
For the simple fact that he did mention he was taken.
So he's not really doing anything wrong.
It's really wrong to snoop through someones phone though... if this is something that leaves you at an unease you should bring it up to him.0