I am 24 year old girl. I get compliments for my looks, I take care of my looks as well, I dress well. I seem to have friends who care about me and like me. When it comes to guys, they can either like me for my looks or be friends, but they never seem to fall in love with me. I have been in a few relationships that ended with a guy telling me he "doesn't feel it" and that I am a very nice girl and I will find someone else. And I have heard this phrase so many times I am sick of it!! I just don't understand, what is wrong with me? In my previous relationships everything seemed fine, we never even had much arguments, I always trusted my partners and they seemed to trust me.
Most Helpful Guy
As Patrick Star once suggested to SpongeBob... "Maybe it's cuz you're ugly?"
Lol, only kidding. You are probably very pretty.
Anyways, I think that maybe since you never got into any arguments with your partners, maybe the relationship didn't have much "spice" so to speak. Maybe it was bland and passionless, and that's why they didn't "feel it."
The best advice I can give you is to love yourself first. Love yourself because if you don't, how do you expect others to love you? Be who you are and love yourself for it.1
Most Helpful Girl
maybe you're putting off some kind of negative vibes or shield0