Over the weekend, I went out with this woman I've been dating for close to a month now. She got plastered. I took care of her, made sure she was okay, all that. Sunday, I had plans and she wanted to go. She bailed on both of them because of the nasty hangover. Understandable. I see a photo on Facebook of her with another guy that she posted later that night. If she's trying to hide it, she's not doing a very good job. The signs for being the "used guy" are there and I don't like being in that position. I feel she's using me to get to this other guy. Should I confront her about this? If we have something real, I think she would be upfront about it. I'm trying to keep myself in check before making up my mind on what to do by posting here.
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There's two ways you can handle this:
-The horrible revenge way-
Invite her out to an expensive dinner.
Order and eat your food.
Tell her you'll be back (act as if you are going to the bathroom)
Then exit the restaurant leaving her with the bill never to contact her again.
-Directly confront her-
Talk to her about this.
Realistically you both are dating.
You aren't exclusive, so she isn't entitled to be with you.
Just shake this off.
Mention it during your next discussion and ask her, is she looking for a relationship or just to have fun?
So you will know how to operate with her from that point on.
I suggest you do the last thing I suggested.
The 1st would feel fantastic, but doing things to hurt people only gives you a short lived satisfaction.0