Girls, pls. answer responsibly as ur comments might affect my perceptions of expecting a pure life long relationship as I am a one woman man. Thanks.
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I wouldn't necessarily use the word 'wrong' but you are certainly being unrealistic.
First of all, purity is not a matter of how much activity your genital has encountered. There are plenty of virgins who are far from mentally, emotionally, and spiritually pure. The extra layer of skin in a vagina does not instantly guarantee a sense of purity. There are plenty of non-virgins who have the purest of hearts.
Second, the odds that you will find a 30 year old virgin who was not raised by wolves, who did not spend her entire life locked away in a mental hospital, who is not a nun, or who is not extremely unattractive physically or personality wise is very rare. Not impossible but rare. The truth is that sex is an evolved awareness of self. Through sex, you discover parts of who you are that have never existed in any other phase of life. It's actually a very beautiful thing for someone's womanhood.
Anyhow, to sum it up; you're going to have to get over this if you ever want to be happy. A vagina that has not experienced sex is not going to guarantee all the other important factors of a harmonious, compatible, loving relationship. There are plenty of females out there who are faaaar from virgins yet they can still do amazing, wondrous, gracious things with their bodies. They can cook a full course meal, they have the knowledge to lead you to the healthiest life, no one can move on the dance floor quite like them, they can craft and massage with their hands... Try to expand your thinking :)2