She's been hurt in the past and has a hard time trusting guys. Her words are "I've trusted people just to have them laugh in my face" and "I don't like the pressure of making something happen" so I gave her space and barely texted her anymore. Our first date was incredible and it ended with a kiss and even a text from her 20 minutes later thanking me for an amazing evening. We haven't hung out since and she's super busy and yes she's really busy. Has a lot of family engagement and birthdays and stuff and I knew this before we even hung out. So her interest was high at first then it lowered or at least appeared to Lower after she realized how much I like her and now it's back up again probably even more than before. Question is do I text her again today or not
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She said she has a hard time trusting. If you play games, how will she believe you really want her? This may not be the time for games like this.
Texting once a day for a few minutes is fine. Constant nonstop texting is clingy and is part of the "pressure " she refers to.
You like her. You want her to believe you like her, and it sounds like she likes you. For heaven's sake, text her. Just keep it down to one or two a day, and if she doesn't respond, don't send another til she does.1
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