Went on a date with this guy a month ago. We have been texting a little and he had to rain check our last date a couple weeks ago due to work. I asked him bluntly if I was chasing a done deal. He said no he was still interested and that he has been told by women he is terrible at dating because he doesn't text a lot. Is there such a thing? Or is my gut correct?
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Guys don't really like texting, so if he's not texting a lot, it's just his way of showing you that he's not desperate. And more importantly, he told you he's not good at texting and that's what he's doing. It's not a surprise if he does exactly what he's telling you, so don't treat it like that. I have a bad habit where I never finish a meal when I go out to eat in a restaurant. I usually tell girls ahead of time so they don't feel like I don't eating with them or that I hated the food. I can't control how a girl is really going to react when I follow through and don't finish. The same is with this guy. So take his words at face value for now and work though it.1