Ok! so I decided recently to try out tinder for the purpose of looking for someone to actually date (shocking! i know), anyway recently i matched with a girl who i instantly hit it off with. Deciding to take the next step, i asked if she wanted to meet and to my surprise she agreed, then proceeded to add me on FB. So im taking all this to be a very good sign, but the problem is i now have a date in a few days and do not know how to act, do i pay for her meal? am i supposed to attempt flirting? or is this first date supposed to be more casual and relaxed? If i dont make the right moves do i risk ending up in the friend zone?
Most Helpful Girl
Ask her questions about her life and be casual and relaxed.0
Most Helpful Guy
I actually met my current girlfriend on tinder, 6 months now and it has been the most natural, no stress relationship ever!
We just met up for drinks initially to keep it super casual in case that connection did not translate into real life. I also did a place she had been to and knew to make her feel comfortable, because lets face it, you are still a random stranger and could be crazy to her at this point lol
We ended up deciding to get food as we were chatting for 2 hours straight, I paid, I always pay for the first date, especially if I invited her out. She ended up taking me two other pubs afterwards because the place we were at was closing, turned out to be the most chill and successful first date of my life!2