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I think maybe you need to work on being able to talk to people. I'm shy too, and while I will not just go up and approach a guy, I do try to chat with people I don't know.
You'd be surprised the people you meet by just chatting casually. Whether you are out waiting for the bus, or in the coffee shop, or even in line at the grocery store. There are always opportunities to hone your social skills. Even if you have friends help you.
The best way to get over the shyness is to realize that everyone at some point has felt the way you do. If people avoid talking to you, it's for their own personal reasons and has nothing to do with you. So I would just start with that and work your way to talking to girls.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE