Would most of you agree certain aspects of your personal life do shift a bit when you are in a relationship and if so which ones?
Recently we had plans to go on a boat with his friends but they didn't have enough seats for me so instead of telling me and either not going or me telling him to go on without me he just went and acted like we never had plans. Basically after some back and forth I let him know that when you are in a relationship sometimes you have to put what is best for the relationship ahead of what you want to do. And that parts of your life change a little once you get into a serious relationship/ He hasa girl friend I haven't met and I said I'm cool with them being good friends but I need to meet her. I don't have to come everytime they hang but if she is a close friend then of course she is someone I want to get to know. Basically simple incorporating one another into each other's lives kind of stuff.
Does this sound reasonable? What ways have you seen your life shift once entering into a relationship? We are both busy and independent people. I know it is healthy to have time apart and interests to ourselves.