I know her for 3 years and we're really good friends. She has told me she loves me a couple of times. But then yesterday she told me about her crush that she's stopping right now and that she's fed up with him. Thats the problem now.. I think im friendzoned. Dont tell me to move on because I won't. It really worths the try as we have a lot in common. Not just interests but life values and such. We might go out in 2 or 3 days. Any tips or help to escape the friendzone if that really exists and take the next step?
PS: I dont want any shitty steps or dating guru advice to "make her want me". You get what im sayin'?
Thanks in advance!
Most Helpful Girl
Spend some time with her and make sure you both are having fun. You could ask her to go to a carnival or something-but just as friends. Once you guys have spent a while there and you're both having fun look at her and tell her how you feel about her, maybe if she's the type you could use a lame pick up line. If she doesn't say something it's not necessarily a bad sign, just ask her if she feels the same way. When you do this, make sure its toward the end of the day because she might feel uncomfortable telling you her feelings for you then spending a rest of the day with you. I hope everything works out and that I could help!3
Most Helpful Guy
confidence, confidence, confidence, I can not say it enough times. It’s all about being confident, speaking up and taking charge. Stop pussy footing around, look her in the eye and don’t be afraid to let her know how you feel. If she does’t see you as being more than just a friend then it is what it is and don’t take it personally, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Rejection is something you need to learn to deal with and take like a man. The best thing you can do right is to just focus on your plans and goals for your life. I am assuming since you are under 18 you are still in high school. Focus on your grades, get involved in activities and do the things that you love on your leisure time. This is whats going to build confidence and make you interesting to a girl. Don’t get too hung up on finding a girlfriend. Read my takes for some better insight on some topics concerning dating.1