so, i met this girl 4 months ago she had a boyfriend at the time, her relationship has been in a horrible place, her life was a mess. i came a long as what she described me i was an answer from god for her prayers i helped her out in many ways and i was always there for her..2 months after she was like im falling for you i love the girl too but i couldnt handle that she was still with her boyfriend i gave her time to figure out what she want
2 weeks ago i told her in 2 weeks you got to choose either me or him i can't continue this way, we met yesterday and she was like i can't lose you but also i can't leave him after 4 years for someone else.. i was like you leaving him for yourself for your own happiness you wouldn't be here if you were happy with him anyway she couldnt choose she was like i need 3 more days.. she cried so much and broke down i never saw anyone that would cry this much..
im really confused, what should i do? is it normal for a girl to cry so much for someone she doesn't love?
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I'm sure she is torn, however I think you are going to lose here. She probably knows that she should want to be with you because you will treat her better. She probably wants to want to choose you. But she probably won't. I'm just trying to prepare you for what I think is the inevitable. I think if she was strong enough or liked you enough it would have already happened. She's just stringing you along because she doesn't want to lose you. But she doesn't want to lose him more.
I really hope I'm wrong. I'm sure you'd be a great boyfriend.1
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