So there is this guy I met recently when I went on holiday abroad and he asked me out but I declined since I was there with another girl and couldn't just ditch her. However, he gave me his number and after a while I messaged him and we have been chatting ever since. He seems like a very sweet guy and he was very kind in person as well. I am going to the same place again (I visit friends there often) next week and we are gonna go out for sure this time. The thing is, I am gonna be there for 7 days only so it's not like I have plenty of time to "date" him. If things go well I would probably want to sleep with him but the other issue is I am 25 and a virgin (just haven't met anyone I felt attracted to, not religious or waiting for marriage) and I am worried that would be a turn off. Provided that I am not asking him to wait and I am ready, would my inexperience be a turn off? Would it be too soon even though I am there only for a few days? What would you guys think?
Most Helpful Guy
Being a virgin should have nothing to do with it. I understand the pressure, as I'm also a virgin in their mid-twenties. However, I'd feel honored if a woman felt that they were comfortable with sharing their first sexual experience with me. I'd definitely try to be as helpful and comforting as I could be to make it as enjoyable as humanly possible.
As for the idea of it being "too soon" screw it. If you feel ready to do the deed, then do the deed. I just hope Mr. Dreamy gives you a good time!0
Most Helpful Girl
It is definitely not a turn off to be a virgin at 25.0