I've been dating a guy for a month now and he is really nice. He introduces me to his friends, holds my hand in public, takes me on dates etc. But we always end up having sex at the end of the night and we actually had sex on our very first date (which I NEVER do just to be clear) it just happened.
So i don't know... I've been used before and have major trust issues.
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Once you started having sex with someone, it's extremely difficult to stop since that is now the expectation. Sex is awesome, but like all good things it can be warped into something terrible. And when you are only expressing yourself in one way, a relationship turns sour. Try to communicate with him that you want to explore each other in other ways. He deserves to know how you feel and you should also find out his feelings. You shouldn't be taken advantage of, but you don't know if that's what he's really doing until you try other things.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE