I am often told by girls that communication is the most important thing in the relationship. Do you agree? If so what would you want a guy to communacate to you about? Would you want him to tell you his thoughts and feelings and confide in you? Would you want him to honest? And fell like he can talk to you about anything?
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Communication is huge. I think it matters in every relationship on some level. I wish my boyfriend would communicate more with me. Instead he's very reserved, but that's just how he is. But there have been many times he has come to me when he is ready to talk. I just have to be more patient. It's hard and it makes me feel sad sometimes that he doesn't talk to me more. Sometimes I feel that he doesn't care about me, but I know that's silly.
If I tell him something, he definitely listens.
I want my boyfriend to feel he can confide in me. Although I don't expect him to always confide in me. I understand he is a private person and very reserved, it's just how he is. So I don't push him. Instead, I let him know I am there for him if he wants to talk and I support him. He can then come to me if he wants to talk.
I just don't feel some guys are really into talking about their feelings. So I've had to learn to just accept that and hope they come to me, but not to push for it too much.1