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if you go by wanting something you don't want the relationship will go downhill as of lack of interest unless you get to know that person on an emotional level.
Going for something you can't have is always difficult because you'll have low self esteem and that relationship also can smither.
there are different ways to approach these and its to have self confidence and your right not to go by things by how people look but how you get to know them. I am the same but some guys im really attracted to don't know how to approach me while I am approachable either they just like to look so be it but at some point we'd have to get to know eachother on that level0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE