So I met this girl on a dating website. We automatically hit it off, i mean everything was clicking and we were compatible in everything. We talked about everything from religion to marriage and told one another things we would never really tell anyone else. We had amazing sexual chemistry (confirmed by her many times). This is all long distance mind you, so it was always a phone convo/texting. I started to catch feeling hard in the first week which is normal but then i started to reciprocate her thoughts of "this has never happened to me before" "i feel really strongly about you" (DUMBASS MOVE BY ME). So Tuesday she was great we talked for about 2-3 hours. The following morning i sent her very affectionate text messages, and she didn't respond back until i had texted her name in a playful manner (Another Dumbass move should have left it be). We talked normally then, and then Thursday she seemed a little distant making an excuse of being tired whereas before when she was tired she would still make an effort to talk (I think this was her being nice and saying outright i need space), she did however text me goodnight with a kiss face i had fallen asleep at this time. So on Friday it texted her saying i fell asleep, the rest of the day we did not text much, we talked here and there but she never really made the effort to go out of her way and constantly text me so i just let it be and answered only when she texted me. That night she texted me she missed me, and wish i was there. I reciprocated but kept my texts as caring but not overcaring, and wanted to make sure i was just nonchalant and not to incite any drama by asking her what went wrong. I made myself too available. Today she hasn't texted me at all. Should i just cut off contact and only answer when she texts me? I feel like she's overwhelmed by my dumbass, and just might need some time to process? I mean i left her alone yesterday and she said she missed me and wanted me there. So i need help please.
Girls, Why has she become so distant all of a sudden?
What Girls Said 2
No don't cut it off with her yet. Maybe there is something going on and she's stressed and doesn't want to talk. Just let her know you care about her (:1
She probably has something going on that makes her feel like she needs a break from her phone. Don't over think it too much but waiting until she texts you first is probably a good idea.1
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