I Met this guy when school started i thought he was funny and cute but i wasn't really ready or attracted to him at the time. He tried to make a move but i told him i wanted to be friends. We still talk all the time and he always makes me laugh. I was in a relationship also during our friendship and everytime i was annoyed at the guy i was dating he would randomly messege me and make me laugh. What a coincidence right? now that I'm talking to him more I'm starting to get more attracted to him but I'm nervous cause school is starting again and I dont know how its going to be like when we are at school cause i've never really been into dating people at school. I'm going to hang out with him soon. Should i make the first move this time so he knows that im interested in him? and shoud i give him a chance?
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You already told him you just wanted to be friends. He respected that and didn't push it. I think now that you are starting to feel differently that it's up to you to let him know. I think you need to be direct and honest. If you just hint and hope he reads the signs, it might confuse him since it contradicts what you told him directly.
That doesn't mean you have to suddenly blurt it out. You can still change the way you act around him. Then when the time feels right, be honest with him. A good relationship is based on honesty and the ability to talk openly. So this is a good time to start. Sooner or later you will need to let him know you feel differently now.1