But during the date as we got to know each other, I learned that she spent most of the winter in and out of the hospital. It was pretty serious and involved some crazy surgey. Long story short, it wasn't a reoccuring disease/cancer/whateves. she's got some interesting scars, but she's "healthy" now. At least, she hasn't had problems in the last couple months.
Still, something about that is getting into my head. I'm kinda getting to the point in my life where I am thinking about marriage and family more seriously. Do I want to invest in someone who might just end up causing me heartbreak forever and then leaving me middle aged and alone?
What would you do?