Most Helpful Guy
My fiance is one of my strongest supporters. I am Bipolar and have PTSD and every day is a constant battle for me I have my good days but I also have my bad days. When I have my bad days i know I can rely on him to be there to help me through it and just being there for me. I am not going to lie it is rough and it is hard to tell them but in the end it is better because then when something happens or what not they know why and what could be causing it. If I were you I would tell him. ~ Mrs. Grimm1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend is sort of his and miss with being supportive to me when I break down. If it's following a fight, he's being unreasonable and I cry or say something after he makes a rude remark, he'll often being up my being 'exhausting', or will say that I can 'keep crying, it's not going to change a thing'.
After things like that happen, he usually comes around within half an hour and apologizes. admitting to acting wrongly. There are also good times. When I'm down for whatever reason and he's the sweetest guy.
Good boyfriends should generally try their best to be there to provide emotional support for their girl. Same goes for girlfriends being there for their boyfriends. However, it's important that the guy not let himself be used as an emotional crutch. I know way too many couples where the girl treats the guy like absolute crap, in addition to only really benefiting from being with him by using him as an outlet for her emotions. They are only human, so most boyfriends/girlfriends can only do so much to help their s/o out with problems.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE