Well, both times he asked I did so happen to be busy and so I had to turn down his offer. However when I did this I would suggest another time when I was free. He asks me again days later if I was busy, to which I said I would be free in a couple of hours or so. The next thing I know he's telling me he will get back to me, without a reason? We carried on texting for a while about nothing in particular and then he stops replying completely. Well I waited, and waited... and he didn't get back to me? I don't understand.. I mean does he expect me to just be free when he is, or did I give him the impression that I wasn't interested in seeing him again? I am still left wondering about how he actually feels about me, whether he just sees me as a friend or if he's playing games, or maybe I'm the one overthinking things and he just so happened to be busy too? Opinions?
Most Helpful Guy
It could be anything. Guys have a habit of not planning and acting in the moment. Next time you're messaging and you are free then ask him if he wants to meet up.
He may also be confused or worried about the relationship. "Kinda seeing someone" is very vague and maybe he doesn't know what the right reaction is and is therefore worried about looking too forward etc... talk to him be honest with him and define your relationship. If he is a good guy he'll understand.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
you should resolve that with him... He either had something going on and couldn't get back to you on time or he's just one confused poor communicator to say the least.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE