I feel like I'm damned if I'm too nice and compassionate, and damned if I assert my boundaries/standards?

I swear. If I am sweet and compassionate, guys take me for granted and shit on me, finally leaving me in he dirt. If I actually assert myself and what I want/need when it comes to how I expect to be treated with respect and not being easy, I get met with anger or disappointment. There seems to be no middle ground and I feel like I can't find balance.


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What Guys Said 1

  • this world is for hardcore aholes. be glad you ain't one. if we didn't exist, the different would never shine... .


What Girls Said 1

  • True.
    And it's because you're a woman. If you were a dude no one would blink once if you were being a ball-buster.


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