So this a thing that didn't bothered me at first but that now does. When we talk my boyfriend and i he often mentions his girlfriend. he says random things, nothing hurtful but still i dont like it. At first he asked me to tell him if i didn't like that and i said it was ok with me but now I don't know how to tell him im not ok anymore with that. I know he dont mean to hurt me or anything he's a really honest person who likes to talk about everything with me. how do I tell him?
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i want to say i love you very much and am so happy in our relationship. You do all these great things (insert examples), however i wanted to talk to you about something on my mind. I know i've told you in the past that it doesn't bother me about you girlfriend but i can't help but get jealous and uncomfortable when you bring her up. I know she's your platonic friend and i trust entirely but she's still a female and i want your 100% attention and any women who gets even 1% of that affects me.
I know this seems extreme and i am well aware of it.. but i just wanted to let you know.. maybe you could try to speak of her less when i am around. That'd help alot! thanks i love you, is there any issues or concerns you might have since we're being open right now?"2