To me I feel like am having to jump through hoops and go through obstacal courses to either get both sex or relationship. I also see it with guys constantly trying to win womens hearts and might just about do it after all that hard work or just fail miserable since she chose someone else and having to start all over again on to the next women. Unless you have money, an asshole or have good genetics it will always be difficult. The way I see it is that you either work for it or pay for it and even in relationship you got to work hard to keep her happy like shit test, drama an keeping her entertained and buy her gifts or she will leave etc. Even online dating you send 1000 messages out and only get few replys but with women they recieve 1000 messages instead and dont need to send any out. I mean you could take a women out and spend money on her and then call her next day and not hear from her again like she's just used you or said to you that your not her type. The way I see it if you dont have model looks, money or the tall gene (6 foot) you might as well save yourself the trouble of rejection and just I dont know get professional escort because am lost with it to be quite fair.
All am saying is does anyone understand where am coming from here and could tell us why its like this?
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It's easier for a woman to get sex, but it's easier for a man to get a wife.
Guys win as we get older. Looks fade but u get better with age. Your pain now will turn into knowledge later. Get as much experience with girls as u can. Soon u will start seeing which girls r full of crap n which ones r good for u.
Everything has a price n it will catch up qith them one day. don't worry about those girls who make u jump through hoops n don't respond n all that.
One good girl is worth a thousand previous rejections0