I'm not really sure if this is just me but my city really sucks for dating. I always knew there was something off but everyone just told me i hadn't met the right person in the city yet. All guys have just wanted to hook up with me, and trust mw im not the "slut" type. You know when the whole Ashley Madison scandal came out? My city was the one with the most amount of users. That just reinforced my point even more.
But I noticed just in general how many people use the site and it's just so wrong.
Why are guys so obessed with cheating and hookups, one night stands?
Most Helpful Guy
Its not guys, its people. Sites like ashley madision can't function unless they have a lot of female members, the suggestion that its only men is rather niave and sexist. Men and women are equally capable of being selfish plain and simple. I do not agree with one night stands and have never cheated, I do know people who have cheated, half of them where women the other half men. Its not a gender thing its society. We have created a society that has told people its okay to do what ever you feel like doing, that you should not think about how your actions can impact your future or how others will percieve you or how they may hurt other people. All that matter is you fullfill your own personal desires and to hell with everyone else. Don't blame men for something women partake in with as great of frequency blame the society that has condoned the behaviour.0
Most Helpful Girl
I had tinder for not much more than a confidence booster and ended up sleeping around (never had a boyfriend, lost my virginity to someone on there) and I can tell you for a fact not all guys are like that. Some turned me down because they weren't comfortable with doing such a thing, and one guy in particular was on there for the same reasons as me yet we've been together for several months and trust each other so much. Everybody is different, and sometimes you click so well with someone that turning up at their place at 3am doesn't turn into sex, instead it becomes dnm's and laughing about stupid YouTube videos - something that then becomes a proper date days later and a relationship after a few weeks. Life's weird, people are weird, but you can't judge an entire group on a select few because nobody's "all the same".2