Do guys even believe in faithfulness?

I'm not really sure if this is just me but my city really sucks for dating. I always knew there was something off but everyone just told me i hadn't met the right person in the city yet. All guys have just wanted to hook up with me, and trust mw im not the "slut" type. You know when the whole Ashley Madison scandal came out? My city was the one with the most amount of users. That just reinforced my point even more.

But I noticed just in general how many people use the site and it's just so wrong.

Why are guys so obessed with cheating and hookups, one night stands?


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  • Im not going to lie. I was unfaithful. Being faithful is boring I know im going to upset people but you wanted opinions. My girlfriend is a very good girl and nice. I get to fuck her when I want and she treats me nice. But for me cheaters are generally selfish people its all about our sexual gratification and dont care about how we get it. My ex girlfriend I cheated on many times purely for sex. I like other girls so I I did it. But at least my ex didn't find out. She was very hurt and forgave me for one of my mistakes. Women who forgive men for this will always get cheated on lol. I've even dropped the LOVE bomb early on my girlfriends so I could get pussy. That's sad I know but every cheater has thought like this before. By the way people say why dont you break it off? Because everyone wants there cake and to eat it too. Isn't it better to have a relationship whilst having the perks of a player.

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    • or you could not be an asshole and just do hooking up with randoms and not tricking the person into pretending that you are comitting..

      thats just fucking sick

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  • I had tinder for not much more than a confidence booster and ended up sleeping around (never had a boyfriend, lost my virginity to someone on there) and I can tell you for a fact not all guys are like that. Some turned me down because they weren't comfortable with doing such a thing, and one guy in particular was on there for the same reasons as me yet we've been together for several months and trust each other so much. Everybody is different, and sometimes you click so well with someone that turning up at their place at 3am doesn't turn into sex, instead it becomes dnm's and laughing about stupid YouTube videos - something that then becomes a proper date days later and a relationship after a few weeks. Life's weird, people are weird, but you can't judge an entire group on a select few because nobody's "all the same".

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    • I am glad you have moved away from that initial tinder phase and discovered friendship and compassion in a relatively dark place. Please don't ever undervalue yourself.

      What is 'dnm' btw?

    • "Deep and Meaningful"
      It's basically when you have a conversation with someone that emotionally exposes you. You tell the other person more private and personal things that either mean a lot to you, or affect you in some form. You'd only dnm with someone you can trust due to the raw nature of convos like that 😊

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  • "Why are guys so obessed with cheating and hookups, one night stands?"

    Just in case you didn't realize by now... a girl needs to be present in those situations too so it's "people" in general that let this happen not just men.

    For a 16 year old, you have major trust issues.

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    • yeah well you don't know my life those trust issues are there for a reason

    • I don't recall saying they weren't there for a reason, I just stated that they are present.

  • I believe in being 100% faithful to your partner. In these times, and around our age group, people are just looking to bang. They may want relationships, but not until later. There are many guys who would never cheat, but that doesn't mean guys that do cheat don't exist. It sounds to me you live in a bad city if infidelity is so rampant.

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  • I dunno really, I can't begin to tell you how many random women I've fucked, though. Just, I've cheated on SO many girlfriends it's fucking unreal.

    I suppose it's just built into my "guy-ness." I can't help it, if I don't cheat or fuck random women, I cease to be.

    Moron.

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  • Im fiercely loyal and when I commit I commit completely. But I'm also not going to just do that for anybody, it has to be earned. So I think there's a line.

    I'm sure some guys are shitheads and they just won't ever treat women right, and others are just too immature at the time to do right by her, but there are guys that aren't like that.

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  • Moral grounds are small today but not all guys are sick horn dogs. Few guys know how special one girl could be and can even say the same for some girls.
    I Myself can not answer your question because I have never been one of those guys but I can say that it can be hard in a world that is socially wrong to do the right thing.
    Just hang in there

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  • Who do you think these men are fucking? Women, so don't start dismissing all men as cheaters unless you are going to dismiss all women as home-wrecking attention whores.

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  • #generalisation162 I'm sure they do hun. it just doesn't seem so anymore. faithful men still exist. they're just hard to find. keep looking girl.

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  • Some believe in being faithful.

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  • Some married ones do

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  • they dont even care.

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    • My cousins wife abandoned him and their daughter for another man (after cheating on him for god knows how long) twice. He gave her a second chance and she did it again. I had a friend who's wife cheated on him and now he is raising a little girl who belongs to the man his wife had cheated on him with. I had a friend who's first girlfriend cheated on him. I have only been with one women my entire life because I do not believe in one night stands, I have never cheated my friends have not cheated, as far as I can tell my brothers have never cheated. This is not something that is one sided. Both selfish men and selfish women are responsible for this.

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