on the day of the date, should I get in touch, or should she?
would it be normal to get very nervous on the day of your date?
you get in touch.
My thought is that a date is a chance to get to know someone, so you don't need that long. Just one long conversation or two smaller ones would be enough, then wait at least a day so it doesn't seem like there's any time pressure.
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