My boyfriend is really insecure and whatever I say he doesn't believe he's not ugly. How do I get him to believe he's attractive?
How do I get him to stop being so insecure?
What Guys Said 4
Put his best photo on Hot or Not and see what he scores... He may be right, lol. About insecurity, you're 15, so I'm guessing he is about the same age... Mid to upper teens, how he looks is very important to most guys. He may not actually think himself ugly, but be wants you to assure him that he is not. Best thing you can do it respect him in front of his friends and your friends. Never look embarrassed to be seen with him. Its really not about looks... but for teens, many think it is.1
Unless he can accept himself so sad to say he can make your life hell with his
Just tell him he's hot and make a fuss of him all the time1
What Girls Said 5
just keep telling him that he looks good and you dont care about his imperfections and you love him just the way he is
and that you wouldn't change a single thing about him
and that you love the real him what's underneath his look..1
The simple answer is you can't. Its sad but true. Confidence can only come from within him. Just support him and show him affection and hope it gets better1
compliment him a lot.1
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