There was a girl I really liked and day in day out she would flirt with me. And all her friends told me she liked me. This other guy we hang out with May of liked her too and she kind of liked him also but the day I was gonna ask her out he ended up asking her out and told my friend he did it just so I wouldn't. He treats her like crap and it's just not a good feeling knowing I could of been with her but he wanted to do that. I've never had a damn girlfriend and that happens and was so close. It's just weird being around them now and stuff. She told one of my friends she still kinda likes me and she kept whispering to me that he's boring and stuff. Does anyone know how to get over this? It's such a bad feeling. Just seems like I won't ever find a girl. He talked bad about me to her I think because he was jealous. Whenever I'm around him and she's not there he talks bad about her.
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There'll be plenty of guys like that. It's just how it is. If she can't recognize him as trash, then you deserve better anyway.
I'm 22, tall, very fit, intelligent, and funny, yet even then my last girlfriend was when I was 15.
Just move quicker next time. Don't get discouraged. Girls like to be pepped up. Being around sad people makes you sad. My advice? Perk up bro. If someone dashes ahead in line, no sweat. Keep your cool.
It sounds like this guy won't be with her for very long. A guy who raises his value by lowering everyone elses will always be regarded as less preferable to a guy who makes everyone feel good for who they are and tries to help.
I think you can go the distance still.0
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