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Everyone thinks that they have it so hard. Just when there is some reason why this doesn't make sense then we get in to "where are all the good ones"? I can't even tell you how many myTakes I've written about relationships and both men and women complain about what their pickin's are or how much harder it is for them.
Meeting someone and the chance that they'll dig you is a risk, and you have to go through several heartbreaks and rejections to get to that person. Anyone who lucks out at 15 years old at dating and remaining with someone for life is a freak occurrence.
When someone is pressured that they should have been in a relationship by now, we can thank previous generations who all got married by the time they were 21, and starting to have kids the year after they were married. Now, it just isn't like that.
Younger people are thinking more about their protection, their security, their careers, and more than ever - the rejection of marriage and for many the rejection of relationships. Part of this is because my generation who had you guys all screwed up and got divorced for the dumbest reasons and now my generation have kids with negative views about relationships in general. People aren't so eager to jump in to dating, and now we have this new born Friends with Benefits social-epidemic going on. But as we are wired to try and find someone, people are pushing everyone away too easily now. Our own society has made everyone so fickle that we just think no one wants to date *us*. Wrong. It seems no one is making it clear they want to date anyone but says they do.
Just keep trying, you'll find a girl that has slipped through the cracks amidst all this social and dating-stunting behaviour that's happening now. It's taking people a lot longer our of their teens to meet people and you're not the only person who is having this issue. Girls are too, so I'm not convinced that they have an easier time as more men in their 20s in general are pushing a lot of women away now, mostly because of radical MGTOW thinking that has vilified women, pressuring many men from keeping them way from women altogether. What sort of message does this give women now? Especially the ones doing nothing wrong? Of course people are going to be guarded.
Anyway, good luck, she'll come around when you least expect it, I'm sure.