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There is a lesson here. When a man steps out on his wife, it doesn't just hurt the wife--it hurts the son.
So PLEASE don't perpetuate the cycle with your own children if you have any.
Is there any way to break this off, before you get fired by said boyfriend from what I assume is a decent job for you?
Note that I don't mind your preferences--those are your business--but I most certainly do mind your messing around. If you want a white lady, seek that out from the beginning. Don't go wee-wee in someone else's pool, and don't break your own lady's heart if you two have an actual commitment.