I've been single for 4 years. Lately I've been doing mostly online dating. I have no clue what I am doing wrong. I have had my share of men who date me for about 3 months and then don't want to be with me. Lately I can't seem to even get a second date online. I don't understand am I that ugly? I attached a pic of myself I am the white girl on the right. I think I am at least a 7 or 8. I am educated super active and very social.
Most Helpful Guy
Lack of respect is one of the biggest causes of break ups when its the guy who break up the relationship. Most guys think they simply want a hot chick who will look good on their arm and be great in bed, but if you disrespect them, especially in front of their friends, they will drop you very quickly. They may not even be sure why themselves, but they just know that something is not right. You certainly are very attractive, so that's not the issue. Are you pushy and/or tease your boyfriend in front of his friends? When you have a disagreement, what is your tone? Is it respectful? You can certainly have your opinion and don't have to just follow everything he wants, but its probably more in the way you do it. (shooting in the dark here)
Another issue is that a guy needs to feel needed. If you are little Miss Independent and don't NEED his care and protection, he will feel that you don't need him and then feels insecure, and once again, probably not even know why. Hope this helps...
Most Helpful Girl
Stop concentrating on getting a boyfriend. Focus on other things and then you'll see that they'll come to you. Because if you want something too bad, it only comes once you've told yourself not to look anymore.