I've been single for 4 years. Lately I've been doing mostly online dating. I have no clue what I am doing wrong. I have had my share of men who date me for about 3 months and then don't want to be with me. Lately I can't seem to even get a second date online. I don't understand am I that ugly? I attached a pic of myself I am the white girl on the right. I think I am at least a 7 or 8. I am educated super active and very social.
Most Helpful Guy
Your looks are not a problem. You are indeed a very attractive girl.
That leaves three other possibilities (that are within your control, that is): your behavior, beliefs, and your personality.
You need to sit down and think about what it is that men want (don't just say sex, that's both lazy-minded and sexist). Then you need to be very honest with yourself and determine whether or not those three things are currently compatible with being in a relationship with a man. If not, then you may need to make some changes if being with a guy is really important to you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Stop concentrating on getting a boyfriend. Focus on other things and then you'll see that they'll come to you. Because if you want something too bad, it only comes once you've told yourself not to look anymore.3