I was talking with a female friend the other day and we were talking about the girl I'm crushing on right now. This girl is very hot and highly sought after, and my female friend questioned my ability to get her. I'm confident in myself and what I have to offer, so I basically said that I wasn't worried about whether she'll think I'm good enough for her. When I said that, my friend kind of shook her head and said, you think you're good enough for any girl, don't you? I was like, yes, why wouldn't I think that? Would it be better if I thought I was a loser who wasn't good enough for any girl? She thought I was being conceited. Was I?
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Funny how many girls seem to have a problem with truly confident guys... there was a guy asking almost exactly the same question on here about a month ago, who also had a similar reaction from a female friend. In my opinion, in those cases, I think those girls have a self-esteem problem that they project onto other people. Good for you for sticking to your point!
I think that's awesome and not at all conceited! I think it shows that you are happy and confident about yourself, which is always a good thing. The world really needs more guys like you and I think you totally have the right view to life and dating. It's not about feeling that you are the most attractive person in the planet - just about feeling that you are "good enough" as you are for anybody. Who wants to be dating someone who needs constant reassurance? That's not fun or healthy for either person in the relationship. You are so right on the hot girls! Happy dating, and good luck with the hot girl!1