I had a really fun 2nd date ( really 1st if you don't count the first meeting coffee) with a guy I met online he followed up after out first coffee date planned, paid, went out of his way to get me home and generally did all the right things on the 2nd date. I did say thank you and that I had a good time at the end of the night. It ended with a hugged and a kiss on the cheek and there was chemistry. I was going to send a thank you text later the day after but am getting conflicting advice so people say yes to show you are interested and other say no he needs to chase.
I have a female friend ( 200% platonic) who often sends a little 'last night was fun' text when we hang out and I like it because it show she values my company, but of course this is a bit different.
Ultimately it’s not a big deal but I am curios as to how guys generally see this.
Guys what's your take, does it
a) show interest in him
b) make you lose interest because I look 'too eager"
c) not needed if I said thanks already
Most Helpful Guy
You could send it, you don't need him to chase, your older now and don't need to play those games1