What is charming for a hot guy (potential player type) is creepy coming from a nice guy. If a hot guy pinches a girls ass she'll be blushing and dreaming about him for the next week. If a "nice guy" (read: ugly, boring guy) did that she'd be filing sexual harrassment charges and attending therapy.
"A Man had an Ass, and a Maltese Lapdog, a very great beauty. The Ass was left in a stable and had plenty of oats and hay to eat, just as any other Ass would. The Lapdog knew many tricks and was a great favorite with his master, who often fondled him and seldom went out to dine without bringing him home some tidbit to eat. The Ass, on the contrary, had much work to do in grinding the corn-mill and in carrying wood from the forest or burdens from the farm. He often lamented his own hard fate and contrasted it with the luxury and idleness of the Lapdog, till at last one day he broke his cords and halter, and galloped into his master's house, kicking up his heels without measure, and frisking and fawning as well as he could. He next tried to jump about his master as he had seen the Lapdog do, but he broke the table and smashed all the dishes upon it to atoms. He then attempted to lick his master, and jumped upon his back. The servants, hearing the strange hubbub and perceiving the danger of their master, quickly relieved him, and drove out the Ass to his stable with kicks and clubs and cuffs. The Ass, as he returned to his stall beaten nearly to death, thus lamented: "I have brought it all on myself! Why could I not have been contented to labor with my companions, and not wish to be idle all the day like that useless little Lapdog!""
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Most Helpful Girl
Get over this whole "nice guy" thing; if a woman sees a guy as creepy, it's because he's acting creepy. No girl is sitting there like: "He's nice... how creepy!" No, it's more like "This guy is acting in a way that isn't appropriate for me nor does it make me comfortable and therefore I now have a creepy perception of him." Will some women be more accepting of "attractive" guys doing more boldly flirtacious things? Sure, I'm sure some will. But for me, if you act like a creep, you're a creep. It has nothing to do with kindness.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Most women I know would get hostile (and rightly so) if a stranger comes and pinches her butt, regardless of how the guy looks.
Now, what needs to be understood is that it's true, attractive men will be called a creep less often than an unattractive one. However this is because the attention of the attractive man is generally more welcome than the attention of an unattractive one. What sometimes makes a man a creep is because he is not picking up on the fact that the woman doesn't want his attention and he continues to pester her.
What also needs to be understood is that some women will call a man a creep for doing nothing more than being unattractive and saying hi to her, or looking at her, or sitting quietly to himself, or flirting with a woman so much as once.
Do unattractive men have it harder. Absolutely. Do some women unfairly call unattractive men creeps (and please note I said SOME, not all or even most)? Absolutely.1