I feel like its becoming a trend. The past three guys I dated I am noticing at the beginning when I'm not interested they are eager to make plans and answer my texts quickly. As soon as we move into 5 or more dates I start to let my guard down and become more invested. I don't get all clingy or anything but will text during the day. I notice they pull back rake longer to answer and aren't as eager to make plans. What am I doing wrong?