Plenty of Mixed Signals?
What Girls Said 1
I don't know but I wouldn't recommend you to keep pursuing her based on the things you said.
What Guys Said 1
Many females, young and old, do the same thing with boys they like: Try to hurt them. This is an age-old behavior. With little girls, they hit the boy they like. With adult women, they will say unkind things, either to exercise dominance and arrogance, or simply to wound.
That's probably what she was doing.
What I've learned--in just the past year--is that if you do not tolerate a woman's aggression--if you respond with very a very frank rejection of the unkindness--often the woman will immediately become very sweet and accomodating. I've seen this again and again. It's been an eye-opener.
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