Girls, "Maybe. I'll let you know," but huge smile?
What Girls Said 2
> am I playing this right? = Spot on, me thinks
> Does she seem interested = Yes, indeed but just window shopping for now
> do I ask again in a few days = Well, if accomplished in non-pressure sales way, just as reminder or better - a new event was just posted & you don't want to go alone... "this doesn't have to be a date", please
> possibly going bigger or smaller on the date? = I have to guess that this means "the date" aka "bait" might be more enticing if more or lesser a big deal? If so, the get together could be less a date (see above) but the content must always be more gal-fun, less guy-fun. e. g. dancing would be a great boon to your status but might be too much at first when a cozy art show w/wine or new bistro might serve as better icebreakers
If she said "I will let you know" take her word, she will let you know. Do not ask her again because that may seem a bit desperate. Just wait some more days and if she doesn't let you know... She is probably not over her past relationship or she might not be interested.
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