Someone messages you and says they like you, and they know you are online?

So you are online and someone you know but don't really like, or someone you have met recently messaged you on viber, messenger etc saying they like you. You have opened the message and you see that that person in online now, and since you opened the message a seen notification has been sent so they know you have seen the message.

How would you handle the situation?
  • Ignore the message and don't reply
    Vote A
  • Try and reply asap, if you like them or not
    Vote B
  • Wait a few hours or days to think about what to say
    Vote C
  • Ring them
    Vote D
  • other
    Vote E
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think the best thing is to get back to them as soon as possible. You know they're sitting there on pins and needles so it's really the kindest thing get it over with as soon as possible.


Most Helpful Guy

  • i'd reply asap and tell her "sorry i don't wanna hurt u, but i cannot see u more than a friend. i'm sayin this coz i don't wanna play wid yer feelings"


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What Girls Said 1

  • if it's someone in real life yes i would tell them i'm not interested in them like that. Same with online too.


What Guys Said 2

  • i just love this community real honest good advice so much of the time

    don't hurt their feelings, they are brave to even tell you, let them know that you respect that =)

  • Asap, it's not nice to let them wait.


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