Its been a year and a half with my girlfriend. We're very much in love. I know some comments might say "shes useing u dude" but thats not the case. Im very street smart and see a good game coming. Anyway, after a year and a half i still foot the bill on everything. Last weekend we went out for a day date. Spent xx amount of dollars. She wanted to continue but i said i couldn't. Rather than say dont worry about it, drinks on me. The drive home was rather quiet. She has money. Not like she's broke. For the 1st six months its a mans duty to cover activities, in my opinion. But after this long its starting to drain me. We discuss moving forward. Marriage etc. But how can i blowing the cash i do. Whats your opinion.
Most Helpful Girl
That is because you allowed her to. You should have discussed this before you even date.1
Most Helpful Guy
What the fuck? Jay tell her that you are gonna have to spit everything in half... That is bullshit.. she should also tell you yourself that you two should split the bills..
She Is just using you!!! Does she even love you?
I don't think you are street smart if you are letting this thing happen to you!
Speak up man! Be in control!!0