1st date: met at a very high class restaurant for drinks/appetizer on him. He was very respectful to me and the servers. Charming and confident!
2nd date: listened to my interests from 1st date and took me on a light hike and then ice cream and chess afterwards! Unbelievable. Probably best second date of my life.
but- I've always been told to play hard to get. I don't ever text him first, nor do I ever call him. When he texts I always wait about 5 hours to text back. I'm sorry to say that I even went so far as to fake a weekend of friends coming in from out of state to cancel a 3rd date he had planned. Also, I mistakenly missed his last text to me for over 24 hours. I tried apologizing when he called but he didn't even seem upset.
he hasn't contacted me in 4 days and now I'm kind of worried it backfired. How do I get this fixed!!