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Well it's not that unusual for a guy to want to take things slow, maybe especially when he's looking out for his children.
You could snoop on his phone, his phone bill and/or his computer, but it would probably be better to just have a heart-to-heart conversation with him about your feelings and concerns, and about how you'd like the relationship to move forward.
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